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About Alisandra Photography

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I am a Wedding Photographer based in Richmond, Virginia. I try to keep this baby as up to date as I can with recent shoots, personal thoughts, and the random, fun little things life brings. Thank you so much for taking time out of your day to visit. I really appreciate it. Please make yourself at home and enjoy your time here!

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Archive: August, 2012



The Local | Rehearsal Dinner

Friday, August 31st, 2012

Gosh I miss Charlottesville. I never thought a place could sink into my system so effortlessly. A few walks downtown. A few coffee dates with photographers I’d never met. An awesome church. Experiencing [almost] all of the seasons in one place. BAM. It will always have part of me.

One of the many places I never went was The Local. A cute little restaurant with a big push for local, seasonal, perfect food. I shot a rehearsal dinner there a week ago and absolutely adored this place. Look at how perfect the light was – and I love the wine is displayed as art, but not in a way that is too formal. This room was perfect for the small celebration.

Fall Portrait Special

Wednesday, August 29th, 2012

Hi blog reader!

Yes you, the one who comments sometimes. And you who THINKS about commenting sometimes. I hope you’re doing well today! Did you know that Autumn is almost here? Yep. Time for Pumpkin Spice Lattes, boots, football, holidays… the summer has come and is headed toward the door. Did you know that this is one of the most popular times to get portraits done? I think it’s because of at least one of these reasons: you still have your summer tan, you wanted to wait until your hair doesn’t rebell against the humidity, you can’t wait to bust out those new boots, you need a photo for the Christmas card and you don’t want to wait until it’s below 40 to get your photo taken, and not to mention those beautiful leaves that are just about to pop into various reds, oranges and yellows…

Well, just in time for your portrait pleasure…

Here are some details.

If you live in Richmond, VA or surrounds, I would love to take your portraits this fall. I’m even going to include a DVD with high resolution images with a print release and a 16×20 Fine Art Print so you can fill in that empty space on your wall! So if it’s time for you do have some portraits done, as a family or a couple, or whatever, please shoot me an email!

Love,
Ali.

Tyler + Kasey | Castle Hill Cider Wedding

Tuesday, August 28th, 2012

We decided to meet in person a few months before the wedding. We sat at Starbucks and talked a though the wedding day, and Tyler kept talking about, “if it rains…” In fact, both of them had decided to make extensive plan Bs – rain plans. More than any other couple I’ve met. Well, they must have had some sort of wedding planning sixth sense about that because it poured all day Saturday. Although not the ideal wedding day weather, Kasey and Tyler wed at the UVA Chapel. Kudos to Kristen, my second, who helped Kasey stay dry as she ran to the church to meet her groom. Tensions were immediately relieved as they were pronounced husband and wife and they celebrated late into the night with one of the best DJ’s in town. After a yummy seasonal meal from The Local, a few donuts from Carpe Donuts, the couple ran off to Aruba, umbrella in hand!

Planning + Coordination // Events with Panache
Church // UVA Chapel
Reception // Castle Hill Cider
Florist // Blue Ridge Floral Design
Catering // The Local
Cake // Albemarle Baking Company
DJ // John Garland
Dress // White Swan Bridal

** The photo of the rain textures, and the photo of the donuts are from my second, Kristen! Thanks Kristen for getting soaked a few times for me during this rainy wedding!**

Marriage Monday | I Like You

Monday, August 27th, 2012

What is love? What does it mean to love someone? To be IN love with someone? Do I love them like I love my best friend? Or my family? Or like I love horses? While I was dating Chad, I actually researched love. I mean, if I’m going to dabble in it, I may as well know what I’m getting myself into, right? Well, even though I had used the phrase with past boyfriends, I learned I didn’t want to use it with Chad. Here’s why.

I didn’t want to say I LOVE YOU to Chad until I could 1] know what I mean, and 2] mean it. While we were dating, I did really care for Chad. I considered his feelings and our relationship in most of my decisions. He was important to me.  On the other hand, daddy hadn’t given me away yet – daddy was still my man. I was still obeying my parents. To say I LOVE YOU meant something different. The kind of love I wanted to have with Chad was AGAPE. Sacrificial love. Love that puts that person above all other persons. Agape love is better shown than said, and I definitely couldn’t show it. Yes, we were committed in the sense that we were an exclusive couple. But the level of commitment in terms of LOVE was not there. Marriage was not there. Marriage is where God commands us to love with Agape love. “Husbands, LOVE your wives [as Christ love the Church...]” God calls for that love only in deep commitment. Jesus was deeply committed to his “bride,” the church, when He died, displaying his love, for it…And so that is why I felt I couldn’t say I love you.

In place of that, we said, “I like you.”

It was cute, light hearted, and I knew I was being honest about it. I could have said, “This is what I mean when I say I love you.” Clarified it. Been done and gotten on with saying those three little words. We just chose to wait. Until the day we got engaged. That was the first time we said, “I love you” to each other, and it was SO meaningful. Engagement was a big deal to me because I knew I had taken a step into deeper commitment. I was now thinking about OUR plans. Not just MY plans. I was beginning to learn what sacrifice in relationship looked like. [Wedding planning will do that very quickly.]

Sometimes I still remind Chad that I do still LIKE him, but I love being able to say with 100% confidence, that I also love him.

Brittney + Evan | Richmond Area Wedding

Tuesday, August 21st, 2012

“Well that went well!” That’s what I told my second, Annamarie, as we waved goodbye to the newlyweds who had just pulled out onto the country roads in Montpelier VA. Evan and Brittney had one of the best days. Besides the fact that they got married, the weather man was calling for storms. But it never rained. Our timeline was perfect. The family was super sweet. Evan and Brittney were excited about their photography and that always makes a difference in how the day goes. I am so happy to share images from their wedding, but first a few of the vendors who made this day run so smooth:

Church // Walnut Grove Baptist Church
Reception //  The Montpelier Center for Arts and Education
Caterer // IK Catering
DJ // Choice Entertainment
Dress + Bridesmaid Dresses // Alfred Angelo
Florals + Cake // Over the Top Wedding Designs

So thankful Anna was there to capture Evan for this first look – I don’t do a lot of them, so it was great to have her along and shoot her perspective.

Anna’s image on the right.
Love this couple. Brittney and Evan, you guys are so perfect in front of the camera. I could literally photograph y’all for hours. Anna’s image on the top right.

Marriage Monday | Bad Marriage Advice

Monday, August 20th, 2012

It was 2007 and my good friend Riva was such a good sport about silly Bachelorette games. Make a veil out of toilet paper and walk around with it. Ask someone [a total stranger] in Wal-Mart if they’d help you “practice walking down the aisle.” Stand on your chair at dinner and sing, “I’m a Little Tea Pot,”  hand motions included. And then there was this game. Put on a white tee shirt and walk around asking people to write down their marriage advice. And when you go to the mall there are all sorts… which makes the marriage advice all over the place. I don’t remember specifics, but some people actually advised her NOT to get married. WHAT?! “Wait until you’re older!” Just crazy stuff.

*from Elizabeth, a bridesmaid, pulled from facebook.

Chad and I, all in all, got pretty good advice. We sought it out from people we trusted and whose relationships we admired. But there is one piece that is the go-to piece of advice during all engagements. It’s not necessarily bad, but it’s lacking…something! Here it is:

Marriage is hard work. This really isn’t a piece of advice. It is a random statement that is so vague and confusing to me. Before Chad and I got married, I tried so hard to get people to explain what they meant by this, “Marriage is hard. It’s the hardest thing I’ve ever done. Are you sure? Marriage is hard.” People always end there when they are offering their two cents. Here is why marriage is hard: it is a constant, every day, dying to self relationship. From what you’re watching on television, to household chores, to swallowing your pride and admitting that you have problems that lead to problems in your marriage, and then asking for help. This is what they mean by hard. My question was, “Well, dating was hard – what makes marriage SO different?” Dating, you can make self centered choices and it’s totally cool. What will I make myself for dinner? What time will I go to bed? What will I do this weekend. But in marriage, keeping in mind that you are not alone in these decisions anymore is SO important.

Have y’all gotten any marriage advice? Good or bad? I want to hear!

Marriage Monday | Boys and Birthdays

Monday, August 13th, 2012

Since I was…born, I’ve had the hardest time shopping for birthday presents for boys. Whether it’s for my dad, my boy cousins, high school boyfriends, or now, my husband, I am so bad at this. I can’t get away with painting dad a picture with finger paints anymore, or writing my name on the card with my mom and “sharing” the gift. Luckily, I the guys in my life aren’t SUPER about birthdays. This gets me off the hook a little, but I still WANT to do something more or different than going out to dinner, birthday hugs, and store bought cakes.

However, when I think of something good, I get really proud of myself and I write a blog post about it. This year, for Chad’s birthday, we celebrated by getting out of our apartment for the night and staying downtown at the Linden Row Inn. I typed up directions for him and left them in his center console of his car so after work he could follow them and find himself “at” his present. He was equally excited to learn we were also going to Chili’s for dinner – you just can’t beat the Quesadilla Explosion Salad.

I’m still learning to read his likes and dislikes so I can really get good at gift-giving [one of those crazy Love Languages]. It takes a lot of creative thinking, advice from other wives, and tips from other dudes, but everyone is different. I know that I’d be THRILLED with Sweet Frog. Or a J.Crew shopping trip. Or a back yard cookout. Really, anything. And Chad might be too, but everyone is different. This year, we both really appreciated the quality time spent away from our apartment.

On a separate note, Chad turned 24!!! HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!

Confidence

Friday, August 10th, 2012

I posted this a few days ago, and my blog ate it. No idea why. But, here is a re-write!

I’ve been watching a ton of Olympics. I find the games to be one of the cleanest, encouraging, and most inspiring things on television, and so when I heard this quote the other day, I HAD to share it. It applies to so many aspects of life, and not just being good at sports, making it to the Olympics, but also to who you are and how you think about yourself. Love it.

Featured | Every Last Detail

Monday, August 6th, 2012

Head on over to Every Last Detail for featuring JoAnna and Kevin’s backyard wedding today! JoAnna and Kevin were THE ideal clients, and I’m so grateful they had me along for their wedding day. Lauren and Kristine, y’all did a wonderful job, as always, putting this post together, and I thank you so much for the feature!

CLICK HERE to view the feature!

CLICK HERE to view their blog post!

The History of Alisandra Photography | Part 1

Wednesday, August 1st, 2012

Fall 2007. I was shooting random portraits. Asking my friends if they wanted to hang out and take photos. We had fun with it. Climbed trees, had funny poses, tried to be VOGUE. Then I met Jenny, a girl who was looking for a second shooter for her boss. I checked out the Photographer’s website and LOVED every image. She dropped my name, I sent an email, and we had a meeting set. He knew where I was coming from, not having shot much at all, but he hired me anyway! I remember my first wedding I ever shot. I was so nervous. I felt like each moment was important and in my hands. Each laugh outburst. Each drink poured. Every smile. And I was the third shooter.

The wedding was at The Greenbriar, in White Sulpher Springs, WV, and I met the second shooter in Charlottesville to drive a few more hours west. We small talked in the car, and I would casually ask questions, trying not to sound silly, but knowing nothing about how the day would go. I retired my Canon Rebel for the day to use the main shooter’s back up back up back up 20D and lenses. We met up for lunch. While I munched on my club sandwich, I listed to how the day was going so far for Rob Garland. First of all, the wedding was going to be beautiful. It was going to take place in the Pink Room and the groom had just arrived a few hours earlier on a private helicopter. Yea, needless to say, Rob introduced me to the world of high end weddings. [Side note, I did not take that picture.]

During my two and a half years working with him, here is what I learned:

You are your brand. What you wear. [Black] What car you drive. [BMW] How you act. [Cool, calm, quiet, and service oriented] How and where you meet with your clients [A decorated office that is quiet and close to most local clients] The products you use. [Leather Albums and Fine Art photos] Your photographic style. [Photojournalistic and Artistic.] How much you charge. [an ungodly amount] All of it represents you.

High End Behavior. Be visible. You client will be grateful to see you when they want a photo – don’t make them have to come find you. Don’t sit down. Don’t “expect” dinner – bring granola bars just in case. Make the elderly feel valued. If you need a break, walk over to your bag, and move stuff around. Don’t sit down. Smile all the time. And even though your feet hurt, don’t sit down.

Get in close. Dancing photos are SO much better if you’re in the mix. They will FEEL like you’re in the middle of the action. And, getting elbowed in the face [or in the camera which then hits you in the face] is just part of the deal.

Embrace personal work. Rob is the house photographer for a lot of the shows at The Paramount Theatre AND he teaches photography at the local high school.

 

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